Tonight I spent my evening packing up my summer clothes and cleaning out closets. While doing this slightly depressing activity (I have so MANY cute summer clothes, not so many winter ones) I pulled out a dress that always makes me think of a particularly awful relationship. I call this boy the mind-f**ker. Yay! So I decided that while there may be nothing wrong with this dress, in fact the very reason I have kept it is because it is just so darn cute so I keep trying to make myself wear it again, I am getting rid of it and it's bad juju. Maybe it is an adorable dress with a sheer polka dot top with a silk cami-slip underneath. Maybe it did look great with my faux-boutin heels. Thing is it didn't make me feel great. It made me a little sad every time I looked at it and I got to take a not so fun ramble down a most unpleasant memory lane. I put it in the "to sell on Ebay pile".

This then started a whole fun adventure as I wistfully packed away my summer things. As I came across anything that associated with unpleasant memories I quite decisively placed it in the Ebay pile.
It was really refreshing to stop with the guilt or the it's just a dress/skirt/blouse get over it self talk and instead just let it go.
I think it is my valuable life lesson for the day. No more bad juju in my life. No more guilt over thinking I should have the bad juju for whatever reason. No more wistful keeping the bad juju for the perfect spring wedding/work event/night out. Just let it go. You can get something new with no bad juju. Stop hanging on. LET. IT. GO.